Monthly Archives: September 2013

I didn’t mean it THAT way

I was delighted that my new escrima (bamboo stick for martial arts) had arrived. I was then asked on how my day was presumably because I was smiling brightly like a child on christmas. “My new escrima has arrived. So … Continue reading

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Mim, the mirror and a misconception

“I look awful!”, Mim exclaimed upon examining her face, specifically the area under her eyes, in the mirror. She didn’t look bad at all. “You look normal. Like you normally look”, that wasn’t an intelligent statement by me by all … Continue reading

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some comfort for the injured

I was seeing a doctor for a recurrent knee injury/infection (it is not quite clear what is going on) who wasn’t too happy with the state of my knee. (the usual conversation & an examination took place) “Is there anything … Continue reading

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The L-Word (UK Edition): L is for …. Loser? Lesbian?

A gay friend of mine was visiting me in northern England and while she was up here we went to one of the numerous gay bars. As it was during the (late) day time numerous, well the vast majority of … Continue reading

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The Gambia – somewhere between insanity, religious warfare and LGBT rights

The Gambia is a tiny West-African nation which in 2012 ranked 165th in the Human Development Index (HDI) between Djibouti and Benin making it one of the nation with a low HDI and as such The Gambia is very keen … Continue reading

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No drinking water in the swimming pool.

I’ve been to the swimming pool recently which in itself wouldn’t be a spectacular thing but it’s more about a young man I’ve seen there. Tha young man in question had a tattoo between his belly button and his shorts … Continue reading

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I’m fairly certain one of us is insane….

Guess whom I’ve met again by random chance? If you thought Tinka you’d be correct. She was talking to me and I was politely listening with my drink in hand and the occasional sip. The only problem (for me) was … Continue reading

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News from the Ex-Gay Therapists: Gay people who don’t have sex are now considered straight

Jones & Yarhouse had already published their paper back in 2011 but I haven’t set up an email service to get the latest papers on sexual orientation or conversion therapy so I only discovered it now. In short: Jones & … Continue reading

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the best offers by esoteric lesbians

I’m always astonished to flabbergasted when I hear about the supposedly non-sexual nature of some of the offers. So there’s Anne after making it clear that she’s not interested in a work place romance her gay colleague suggested that they … Continue reading

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flirtation gone wrong VIII

I was standing with a small group of people outside the gay club and was more than happy that I managed to take my drink outside. Two obviously very drunk young men exited. Both of them looked fairly straight but … Continue reading

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